Fulfill the dream of having a family with a sperm donation program

My baby is about 1 year old. The happiness that I thought I could never have again in the past few years is happening to me. I hope that my experience can help some couples who are desperate to have a baby because of their fertility problems. The light of hope showed up and happiness will come. I appreciate that everything goes well. Thank God Father prepared everything for me. My husband and I feel thankful.
2023-12-15
Author: 客戶分享
Translator: Kathleen

Found the problem of infertility

My husband and I met, fell in love, and decided to start a family together. We didn't have any pre-marital check-ups until a few years after we got married when we were ready to get pregnant and have a baby. My husband was diagnosed with azoospermia by a doctor when he was in Hong Kong. We were so sad that we can’t have our baby. Although my husband didn't have any reaction, I believe he was very sad after knowing the result. I love him very much and therefore I have never dared to tell him my feelings directly.

In my life, when I hear friends or relatives announcing that they are pregnant, of course, I wish them well and feel happy for them, but there are many nights when I cry non-stop because of it, and it hurts me a lot. But couples always have to support each other to go on, in one night I confessed to my husband everything hidden in my mind, I originally thought his reaction would not be good, but he said: "Nowadays, the medical treatment and medicine are very advanced, we can ask someone to donate sperm, the baby as long as there is your genes will already be our baby.

Began a journey to Stork

This journey wasn’t as long as I thought. My husband searched for information, and found “Stork Fertility Center in Taiwan” He said the name gave him a sense of meaning in his life. So we mailed the center and didn’t wait too long to receive a reply. I filled out the form about our condition and what we were going to have the treatment for. On a weekend morning, the staff called me and explained in detail the cost, the procedure, and the documents I needed to prepare, among which there was a marriage certificate that I had to prepare in Hong Kong, they also suggested that I could have a blood test in Hong Kong to check my AMH. Luckily, the result of the blood test was very good for my age, which gave me a lot of confidence.

After my husband and I prepared all the necessary documents, we planned to go to Stork in Taiwan during the holidays to see the doctor for the first time. The doctor arranged my treatment based on my situation. When choosing between the two courses of IUI and IVF, he understood my condition and future fertility plan and suggested that I go directly to IVF. I originally wanted a faster treatment and didn't want to wait any longer because of my age. After the visit, I returned to Hong Kong with the necessary injections and medications. What differs from the IVF treatments I have known in the past is that the entire treatment is very flexible and can be arranged according to my holiday plans. After arranging everything, when my menstruation came, I notified Stork to start preparing for the treatment. I took a long-acting ovulation injection on the third day of menstruation, and I didn’t have to do anything for about five days in between. This also surprised me. The treatment was not as painful as I imagined. After the follow-up, the doctor's evaluation, and three short-acting ovulation injections, the egg retrieval time was decided (triggers were also given two nights before the egg retrieval). A total of only 6 needles were used to complete my treatment. Thank God Father prepared everything for us. My husband and I feel thankful.

Well-Prepared and Success Once

On the day of egg retrieval, a total of 14 mature eggs were fertilized and eventually developed into 10 blastocysts. For the baby’s health, we decided to have a PGT-A examination. At that time, we decided to send three blastocysts for testing. The test results showed that two normal blastocysts could be prepared for transfer. After a month of rest, I started preparing for the transfer. The transfer process is also relatively easy. When menstruation comes, prepare to take medication for a week and then do an ultrasound to check the thickness of the endometrium and have a blood draw. After the numerical evaluation is normal, can prepare for transfer. This time I transferred two embryos and got pregnant successfully. Although there was bleeding in the early stage, one blastocyst implanted and a heartbeat was confirmed in the end. I am so grateful that I can become a mother. I am so thankful that I have met all the staff at Stork. They make me feel safe and confident during the treatment. In the month before I was due to give birth,  the consultant continued to care for me. She was very happy for me when she saw that everything was well with me.

Interestingly, When the baby was born, we discovered how wonderful it was. We thought the baby looked like me at first, but later people around us said the baby looked very much like my husband. We all know that all this is not easy to come by, so my husband and I are touched. The baby is healthy and everything is normal. Now we are eager to take the baby home every day after work, hoping to get home as soon as possible to see the baby. Although taking care of the baby is very hard, it is still very happy and enjoyable.

*This article only reflects the treatment status at the time of writing, and the actual situation should be discussed with the doctor.

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  1. The feeling of knowing and cherishing each other between husband and wife is invaluable, and happiness can come after a second thought. To fulfill the dream of having a family, and not to let his wife work too hard during the IVF process. The husband actively searched for all the possibilities, which led to infinite happiness.
  2. Azoospermia and diminish ovarian reserve are often the most difficult condition of IVF. The former requires borrowed sperm for fertilization, while the latter means that the egg reservoir gradually decreases and requires multiple treatments through egg collection. When you are older, you are more likely to consider borrowing eggs. However, it is currently illegal in Taiwan to borrow eggs and sperm at the same time, and the only way is through adoption. The client also mentioned that she was lucky because the AMH test results showed that the egg reservoir was sufficient, so she didn’t have to work hard to collect eggs every month, which greatly increased her confidence. The concept of preventive medicine is becoming more widespread, and anyone who is planning to have a child can have an annual AMH test to check their ovarian reservoir when they reach the age of 30.
  3. Looking at the photos of her husband and baby that the client often sends to me, I deeply feel their happiness from the photos. The baby holds her father's hand tightly, and her father's face shows smile and joy. This kind of love and happiness is irreplaceable.
  4. Luck Code: 

    Date

    MII

    Good blastocysts

    The result of PGS

    Number of transfer

    Result

    Rest of blastocysts

    2017.04

    #14

    #10

    Biopsies #5

    Examination#3

    Euploidy#2

    Aneuploidy#1

    #2

    A Health Baby Girl 

    7